So....some people think they know everything. Some people believe that if they know everything that it also means they are completely in the right. This is laughable. It just makes it glaringly obvious just how naive that person really is.
Take this for example:
To criticize someones method of grieving? Its wrong. Maybe the actions that person or people took was the best way to help them and possibly others either grieve or just to deal with it. But just because you do not believe it was proper does not mean that your opinion on the matter is correct. You're certainly allowed to have that opinion if you so choose, but you do not go announcing it to the world because then it is just in bad taste. But if you honestly paid attention you would see that the parents of the deceased actually appreciated what was said, then that means there was nothing wrong with it. But that probably was not even noticed.
Another point to bring up is this. We all do not know for sure how or why he died. Those people who have been with him day in and day out know more than a general speculation so, to believe he killed himself without all the facts is just plain ignorant. If he was really your friend you should maybe try to get all the facts before you just label his death as something so horrible.
And lets see, what you wanted to talk to his parents about? Pretty sure its already known. In one way or another, its known. So the fact that you think the "drama whores" are not doing anything about said situation could be because once again you, who have no been an active part in any of our lives anymore for whatever reason you want to believe because I am done arguing that point, might not know everything!
And the reason why any of us might have just acted like everything was ok between all of us might have been the fact that all of us just had someone die who we all cared for a lot in our own way. So it might have something to do with the fact that we did not want to have petty problems to deal with on that day because maybe they should not have mattered as much as what really was going on. Maybe you should not have shunned the fact that we were just trying to be friendly because we believed you would be upset, whether you wanted to show it, share it or not. So please, get your facts straight before you go on a name calling rant thats full of false truths and incomplete information. Because believe it or not you do not know everything. No one does.
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